Thought Adjuster:  “You were thinking about all the precious friendships that have—and are adorning your life—some of them stemming from your childhood and others gleaned along each of the ensuing chapters of your life.  They made and still make a difference in your emotional environment.  Why is so?

“True friendships are sincere heart connections where both parties wish to be equally there for one another –through thick and thin.  Such friends are not just fair weather friends who only show up when your life is running smoothly, looking to partake in its blessings, but keeping you at arm’s length whenever your skies are cloudier. 

“You have been blessed with many true friends.  They are those you turn to for advice and comfort whenever you are at your wits’ end.  They are those whose numbers are on the speed dial of your heart and who will pick up at the first ring, no matter how inconvenient the hour—rather than ignore your call after looking at the caller’s ID.

“Friendships are matches made in Heaven as well.  Each friend brings in your life some quality that you admire and wish to emulate.  Such friendships inspire you to become a better person.  Each friend is equipped with special skills and qualities that you can call upon depending on the specifics of the challenges you are encountering or the joyful content of the moments you want to share.  Each one has some unique qualifications, exhibits a beautiful facet of Godlikeness and is a comforting presence in your life. 

“Soon enough, friends become family and such a family joyfully makes room for more members as each member contributes to its strength and cohesion.  Learn to scout for more friendships.  Learn to reach out to those insecure and shy souls whose longing to be part of a loving community has not yet been satisfied.  They will respond to your open heart. 

“Friends support one another through difficult times.  They cheer each other up in their positive endeavors.  They provide much needed encouragement during hard times.  They cherish your confidence and honor it.  They spontaneously lend a helping hand and take personal interest in your wellbeing. 

“The Brotherhood of Man is meant to be such an extended family of souls who deeply care for one another.  They do not look down at their more disadvantaged siblings.  Rather, they are willing to go down on their knees to establish a safer zone for eye to eye contact.  May you be blessed with many genuine friendships as they are precious contributors to the rich content of your life.”